Īfter narrowly at the top of any shaving has taken Racer. then the front came to him a small bowl of water on the top of my head pouring head hair are all getting wet made . then a rubber band and tightly tied, then get my hair cut raised. My mother in law right to say BARBER a hair brush took me back to the hair is fine by it.
The neck end until the pruning, and then the hair shaved just leave it. My hair is very thick and long, and that's why he is my house called my mothe-in-law "mam so long hair i sale the higher the price goes. I sat on the board of BARBER shaving knife, he took up his tools box and take a razor and Clean after fitting a fresh plade.
We walked to custom, ritual of shaving that this forced me to sit on the board himself. He came up beside me crying, my mother-in- demonstration pannin You do not have any boy. Atanmele told me that I can not sit cried. My mother-in- law more than age for me, but my husband died, my in-laws would be good for my head shaved when I want to smile? What justice.? What I did not speak but anyone dont care me.īARBER took me to the girls now. I have less respect for the law saying it was taunting me. Formally so you 're going to beat you today her head ," she said. My mother- in-laws gave me a coffee and bring it to me, " our Hindu women after the death of the husband have their head shaved. Seeing him today and I thought that something wrong is going to happen. I coming from the bathroom and when I came to our house was barber barber for men. The next morning my mother-in-law raised me as soon as I finish face wash and a morning problems. I am saying that I can not put this one does not care. Her told everyone that I wear a white saree only. Them all my flowers, temporal, and destroyed vermilion. Residential burglary took me on our side. On the 16th day night 10pm change my routine Life. I have 16 days in this beautiful sari, jewelery and flowers in my hair, and wear mark on the forehead ceremonies were great. 10 days for a women to do so gradually that the Brahmin family, were rituals. He was dead for 10 days without any memory. At this stage a widow women's situation happen in this community ? Think about that. If you want to shave off your head alongwith men going inside graveyard you can go.I now felt that a young widow in a cultured family. This is because, as per Hindu theory of evils, if you go inside grave yard you may carry one of evil element with you and perception is hairs are the part of body through which evil element can enter ones body. Few people opined that because women can't shave their head, they are not allowed. Some say that married women are allowed at the shamshan ghat and that because that they considered not pure whereas unmarried girls meaning the virgin ones are said to be pure and it is easy for ghosts, evil spirits and fierce deities to get their control through bad means.ĥ. Traditionally, it is believed that girls are weaker mentally and will not be able to handle such a scene.Ĥ. The smokes are foul and these are enough to make any normal human feel rather sick. Sometime, the corpse jerks up and needs to be beaten back into the pyre using bamboo sticks. Women in Hindu religion are considered to have a delicate heart and this can leave a disturbing image for a long time.ģ. Sometimes due to the heat, the body may cramp up, and it is not a pleasure to watch. According to Hindu mythology, before leaving the shamshan ghat the family members of the deceased must ensure that the dead body is fully burnt. Some say that a funeral is hard to watch. Hence, women stay at home doesn't go to shamshan ghat.Ģ. And traditionally, this is the duty of the household women. According to public forum, Quora, when all male members of the family leave for shamshan ghat, someone has to be in the house to clean it and take care of it.
India TV brings to you 5 reasons why women don't go to shmashan ghat:ġ. And in-case, if she is the only child of the deceased, she has the right to light the pyre. Women can visit the place if they want and the family is okay with that. But the fact is that the Hindu ritual doesn't ban girls from visiting the funeral site. It is widely believed that as per Hindu rituals women are not allowed to participate in the procession beyond the street they live in and also they do not go to shamshana, only males go to shmashan to perform last rites. Typically, it is built near rivers or fresh streams so that ashes can be disposed of after cremation in accordance with Hindu tradition.Īccording to the rituals, the son of the deceased lights the pyre fire at the shamshan ghat.
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